Coming out of the closet

 


According to the Cambridge Dictionary, "come out of the closet" is a phrase used to tell people that you are gay after previously keeping this secret. But where does this phrase actually come from?  Some said it is related to the idiom "skeleton in the closet", which means someone hidding a human body (a secret) in the closet so long that the it had decomposed to the bone. Thus, skeleton out of the closet means revealing the secret that you hid for a long time and it slowly evolved into the term "come out of the closet". It carriers a negative narrative that a homosexual/bisexual person is not accepted by the mainstream value and he/she has to hide the sexual orientation from the outside world. Surprisingly, according to wikipedia, the expression "coming out" is way more positive with empowering. Instead of saying "coming out of the closet", it was rather "coming into" a homosexual society that is not so small, isolated, nor hidden as what we thought. It borrows the idea of young upper-class ladies in the early 20th century who have reached an adult age and would present themselves to society formally that they are eligible for marriage. Thus, being an LGBT was not so hidding as closet implies.

The LGBT community used to be misunderstood and treated unfairly. However, after years of fighting against discrimination and as modern society becomes more open-minded, people with different sexual orientation are more accepted and treated equally as others. For example, it has been possible to have same-sex marriage in the Netherlands since 2001. The LGBT community is also more open to let other people know their sexual orientations and be pround of themselves, as seen as annual pride parades in many countries. 

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